Are you a Perfect Hot Mess ready to throw off the mask and learn just how crazy kick-ass you are? If so you will have no problem with the following rules to play here:
1. RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF ALL MEMBERS
This rule is #1 for a reason.
What is said here stays here.
-Women have the entire world telling them who they should be and how they should behave. Not here. This space allows for you to be you, no matter how bitchy, crazy, snarky, insane, pathetic, sad and so on that may appear to be. We here at PHM understand that in order to step out into our true identity we need a safe place to practice...and fail miserably, so that one day we can strut our own energy loud and proud everywhere we go. Trust and vulnerability is vital for each one of us to grow.
No sharing business that is not yours to share.
No second chances.
YOU WILL BE BANNED
2. NO QUOTES...unless it’s an original!
Aint nobody got time for that...here.
There are plenty of places to share the latest inspirational memes.
This is not one of them.
Here at Perfect Hot Mess we focus on being RAW, REAL, and ORIGINAL.
We love to see your ORIGINAL meme or quote.
Keep this in mind for videos as well.
We would love to see your ugly cry, kick-ass victory dance moves, or awkward moment shares, but PLEASE keep it as laser as possible.
Short, sweet and to the point so that you can get the most out of your time here.
3. NO ADVICE
There is no better way to say “My sh#t don’t stink” than to assume you know someone else’s answer.
There is no room for that here.
Rather than talk AT a fellow Perfect Hot Mess, talk WITH her.
*HINT* It takes one to know one. If you begin to deflect with 'words of advice': STOP...and instead ask a question. You will learn something.
4. DONT BE A DICK
Honest feedback is a must here, but that mean girl sh#t is not cool.
Just don’t do it.
5. DONT BE A VICTIM
The truth hurts sometimes.
And real women aren’t afraid to hurt your feelings.
If feedback chaps your a$$, there is usually a reason why.
Find the value.
6. SHOW UP...IN REAL TIME
The best way to grow is to take the step that is in front of you.
Everyone has pain in their past and worries for their future.
Peeking at these can wash you in newfound freedom.
Linger too long and you run the risk of drowning.
Simply put: Dwelling on the past or future is resistance....an excuse to not feel the here and now.
FIND THE VALUE in the past/future pain and continue down the road kicking-ass!
7. OMG...NO SPAM
This seems self explanatory, but just in case:
There is no room for self promotion here.
We are all for women supporting women at Perfect Hot Mess, but not at the expense of cramming the feed with marketing, MLM, business opportunities, personal polls, farmville invites, another once in a lifetime webinar, cats for sale and so on.
We know that your MLM business is poised to change the world...if only all of your fellow Perfect Hot Mess' would just sign up...but frankly we are all fuc#ing sick of it.
Go get it girl!
Just do it anywhere else but here.
It’s not cool.
Don’t do it.
*We may break our own rule and promote something if we feel as though it is of service to the group. We reserve that right as it is our group and community.
8. WE SWEAR
We tend to have a bit of a potty mouth.
If that offends you, this probably isn’t the group for you and you should remove yourself now. Shit.
9. NO BITCHING... EXCEPT ON WTF WEDNESDAY
Mindless rants get us nowhere. We will celebrate our anger and rage together on Wednesdays.
If you don't agree with ALL of these rules, no problem. But please remove yourself from the group.
If you have questions you can EMAIL Amber below.
**Note: These rules are subject to change without notice. It's on you to keep up.
Are you still there?
Of course you are...because you are a bad-ass.
Now get out there are share how much of a Perfect Hot Mess you are!